Thanks for everyone's input. I think I'm going to go with the Flashforge Adventurer 5M. I can get it off of Amazon on my wife's Prime account for $379. To me that seems like a decent middle of the road option. Funny part is I talked to my wife's DnD group and like 3 of em suggested the Elegoo Neptune 3 Pro for about half the price. To me it seems that the sturdiness of the 5M seems to outweigh the price of the Neptune 3.

I welcome all opinions as I tend to get into my own head and bogged into the details of such a decision.