SKR mini E3 V2 and BLtouch V3.1 Help

Hello,
New to 3d printing. My printer was working great, printing tons of things with my son. I upgraded the Motherboard to the SKR Mini E3 V2 and it worked even better..
Then I got a Genuine BLtouch V3.1 and I cannot print. Ive download tons of Marlin files and even used this https://www.reddit.com/r/ender3/comm...3_v20_ender_3/
a couple of times.
1) I cannot get the VSCode to upload
2) when it was printing it was pringing off the front of the bed
3) when I use pronterface "TMC connection Error"
4) if I autohome the extruder shoots to the right and makes a horrible noise.

I recently got rid of the springs and use silicone bushings
https://www.thingiverse.com/thing:3148733
is the Mount Im using for the BLtouch.
if anyone could help I would greatly appreciate it!!

Let me know and I can send you the VSCode I'm using, well not working..